
(more…)What if intelligence is not measured by how much pressure you can endure or how knowledgeable you are, but by how wisely you refuse unnecessary suffering?
There is a particular kind of person our culture has learned to admire. She answers emails at midnight and again at six the next morning. He has not taken a real vacation in three years and speaks of this with a strange, quiet pride.
They describe themselves as fine, even as their sleep erodes, their patience thins, and their friendships shrink to a handful of rushed messages. We tend to call this strength. We call it grit. We call it resilience. Rarely do we stop to ask whether it is, in fact, intelligence.
















