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callin Community Standards

Trust, Safety & Belonging

Community Standards

Creating a safe, respectful, and supportive space for every conversation.

Every conversation on Callin begins with a simple act of trust: one person willing to speak, another willing to listen. These standards exist to protect that trust. They describe how we keep this space safe, how we expect everyone here to treat one another, and what you can rely on from us in return.

We've written them the way we hope you'll experience Callin itself: clearly, honestly, and with care. Safety and warmth aren't in tension here. We believe the clearest boundaries are often the kindest ones, because they're what make it possible for people to open up in the first place.

Last updated · June 2026 Applies to all users, listeners, and conversations on Callin
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Why we're here

Our Purpose

Callin is a space where people can talk openly, think out loud, and feel heard.

We built Callin because so many moments in life don't call for a diagnosis or a solution. They call for someone to simply be present. A hard day. A decision you're turning over. A feeling you haven't said out loud yet. Callin connects you with a trained listener whose only job, in that moment, is to listen with full attention.

That focus is intentional. Listeners are here to listen, reflect, and support, not to diagnose, treat, counsel, or direct. This distinction shapes everything else in these standards, and we ask every member of our community to hold it with us.

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The experience

What Callin Is

Callin offers a small number of things, and we try to do each of them exceptionally well.

Active Listening

Our listeners are trained to give you their full, undivided attention: to follow your train of thought rather than redirect it, and to reflect back what they hear so you feel genuinely understood.

Emotional Support

Life is easier to carry when it's shared. A listener offers steady, warm company through whatever you're feeling, without judgment and without an agenda.

Confidential Conversation

What you share is treated with discretion and care, within the limits described in our Privacy & Confidentiality section below.

Non-Judgmental Human Connection

You're free to say the messy, unfiltered, half-formed version of what's on your mind. Our listeners meet you there, without judgment.

Space for Reflection

Sometimes the most valuable thing isn't advice. It's the chance to hear your own thoughts out loud, with someone present to witness them.

Many of the people who come to Callin simply need someone to listen. That's not a lesser form of support. It's often exactly what's missing.

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A clear boundary, stated with care

What Callin Is Not

Because we care about doing right by the people who use Callin, we want to be unmistakably clear about what this platform does not provide. This isn't a technicality. It's central to keeping you safe.

Callin is not:
  • Therapy
  • Psychotherapy
  • Counseling
  • Coaching
  • Psychiatric care
  • Medical treatment
  • Healthcare
  • Crisis intervention

Our listeners are not licensed clinicians, and Callin is not a substitute for one. They do not provide diagnoses, treatment plans, medical advice, clinical recommendations, or emergency services of any kind. If you're looking for clinical care, we'd gently encourage you to seek a licensed therapist, counselor, or physician. Callin is meant to complement that kind of support, never replace it.

We hold this line carefully because blurring it wouldn't serve you. A listener who oversteps into clinical territory, however well-intentioned, can do real harm. Keeping the relationship honest about what it is lets it be genuinely good at what it is.

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Please read this section closely

Crisis and Emergency Policy

Your safety matters to us more than anything else on this page. Please understand this clearly, so that in a moment that matters, you know exactly where to turn.

Callin is not a crisis hotline or an emergency service.

We are not able to provide immediate intervention during a medical, psychiatric, or safety emergency. If you are experiencing suicidal thoughts, thoughts of self-harm, a threat of violence, a medical emergency, or a severe psychiatric crisis, please reach out to emergency services or a crisis line right away. You deserve support that's equipped to respond in real time, and trained specifically for this moment. That's not something a listening conversation can safely provide.

US & Canada · Call or text 988 UK & Ireland · Samaritans, 116 123 Emergency · 911 / 999 / 112, or your local number

This isn't us stepping back from you. It's us pointing you toward the kind of help that can actually meet the moment. If a listener believes you may be in immediate danger during a conversation, they're trained to gently encourage you toward emergency or crisis resources, and may need to end the session to do so responsibly. This is a safety measure, never a punishment.

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What we build on

Community Values

These values aren't decoration. They're the working principles behind every policy on this page, and every conversation that happens on Callin.

Respect

Every person who joins Callin, whether speaking or listening, is treated as worthy of dignity, patience, and care, without exception.

Trust

Trust is earned in small moments and protected through consistency. We aim to be exactly as reliable as we say we are.

Empathy

Understanding someone doesn't require agreeing with them. Our listeners meet people where they are, not where it's easiest to stand.

Compassion

We assume good faith and meet hard moments gently, while never letting compassion become an excuse to look away from harm.

Confidentiality

What's shared in a conversation stays protected, handled with the discretion it deserves and the limits it requires.

Accountability

Standards only mean something if they're enforced evenly. We hold ourselves, our listeners, and our users to the same bar.

Human Dignity

No one's circumstances, struggles, or identity make them less deserving of respectful, attentive care.

Inclusivity

Callin is built for people of every background, identity, and walk of life. Everyone should feel this space was made for them too.

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How we treat each other here

Rules of Engagement

A space built on openness only works if everyone in it feels safe. The following conduct is never permitted on Callin, by users or listeners alike.

Not permitted
  • Harassment, threats, or intimidation
  • Stalking or persistent unwanted contact
  • Discrimination of any kind
  • Exploitation or manipulation of another person
  • Abusive behavior toward listeners or users
Also prohibited
  • Hate speech in any form
  • Illegal activity of any kind
  • Sexual harassment or unwanted advances
  • Repeated violations of stated boundaries
  • Attempts to circumvent safety measures

When these standards are broken, we respond proportionately and consistently: through a warning, a temporary suspension, or permanent removal from Callin, depending on the severity and pattern of the behavior. We'd always rather guide someone back toward respectful conduct than remove them, but the safety of our community comes first, every time.

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Protecting the people who listen

Listener Boundaries

Listeners give something real in every conversation, and we protect their wellbeing as carefully as we protect yours.

Listeners are trained to provide emotional support, active listening, and reflection. They are not required to agree with you, provide advice, remain in a conversation that has become unsafe, or tolerate abusive behavior of any kind.

If a conversation crosses a line, through hostility, harassment, or any of the conduct described above, a listener has full standing to end the session and report what happened. This isn't a failure of the conversation; it's the system working as intended. Callin exists to protect both the people who come here to be heard and the people who do the listening.

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How we keep this space safe

Community Safety Policy

Safety on Callin isn't a single feature. It's an ongoing practice, made up of several layers working together.

Safety Monitoring

We monitor for patterns of concerning behavior, technical misuse, and conduct that violates these standards, using a combination of automated review and trained human judgment.

Escalation Procedures

Reports and flagged conversations are routed to our trust & safety team, with the most urgent concerns prioritized for immediate review.

Boundary Enforcement

When a boundary is crossed, we act consistently and proportionately, in line with the conduct described in these standards.

Content Review

Where necessary for safety or legal compliance, conversations or reports may be reviewed by a trained member of our team, under strict confidentiality protocols.

Account Restrictions

Accounts that show a pattern of concerning behavior may have certain features limited while a situation is reviewed.

Temporary Suspensions

For conduct that warrants a pause but not permanent removal, we may suspend an account for a defined period, with a clear explanation of why.

Permanent Removal

Severe or repeated violations, particularly anything that threatens the safety of another person, result in permanent removal from Callin.

Every safety decision we make is grounded in fairness and consistency. We aim to apply the same standard to every account, every time, and to explain our reasoning whenever we can.

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What stays between us

Privacy and Confidentiality

We know that openness depends on trust, and trust depends on knowing where your words go. Here's our honest answer.

What you share on Callin is treated with discretion. We don't sell your conversations, and listeners are held to clear confidentiality expectations as part of their training and ongoing standing on the platform.

That said, confidentiality has limits, and we think you deserve to know them upfront rather than discover them later. We may review or disclose information where we believe it's necessary to prevent serious harm to you or someone else, to comply with a legal obligation such as a valid court order, or to investigate a violation of these standards. These exceptions exist for the same reason the rest of this policy does: to keep people safe.

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Fair, and human, about money

Refund Policy

We want you to feel good about every purchase you make on Callin. Here's how we handle it when something goes wrong.

SituationHow we handle it
Technical issues If a call dropped, failed to connect, or you were charged for time you didn't receive due to a platform error, you're eligible for a full refund or credit.
Duplicate charges Accidental duplicate charges are refunded in full as soon as we confirm the duplication.
Accidental purchases If you purchased a session or subscription by mistake and haven't used it, reach out within a reasonable window and we'll make it right.
Completed sessions Sessions that were delivered as described are generally non-refundable, since the time and care of a listener has already been given.
Dissatisfaction with a conversation Not every conversation will feel like the right fit, and that's okay. Let us know, and we'll review it individually rather than apply a blanket rule.

We review refund requests individually whenever a situation doesn't fit neatly into a category above. Our goal isn't to find reasons to say no. It's to be fair to you and sustainable as a company, and we try to hold both at once.

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If something doesn't feel right

Reporting Concerns

If you experience or witness misconduct, a safety concern, or behavior that feels inappropriate, please tell us. Reporting helps us protect not just you, but everyone who comes after you.

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Report

Flag the conversation or account directly in the app, or contact our trust & safety team with as much detail as you're comfortable sharing.

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Review

A trained member of our team reviews every report, with the most urgent and safety-critical concerns prioritized first.

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Resolution

We take appropriate action based on what we find, and let you know the outcome wherever we're able to share it.

You will never be penalized for making a good-faith report. We'd always rather hear from you than have a concern go unspoken.

Our Commitment

"Every conversation on Callin should reflect the values that bring people here in the first place: respect, empathy, curiosity, and care. These standards exist to protect that experience for everyone."

We believe meaningful conversations matter. We believe people deserve to feel heard. And we believe safety and compassion were never meant to be in conflict. They make each other possible.

With care, The Callin Team